Keeping it Real

Being 30 years old I've come in contact with quite a bit of fake people. What I have never been able to grasp is why be fake? If I don't like you, you will very well know it, moreso now than ever before. It just does not sit well with me with people pretending to like you when in actuality they do not. Why fake? What people fail to realize is that most people will respect you more if you can just be honest and let them know how you feel first hand... Not to mention that it hurts more to find out that someone only pretends to be cool with you.



What gets me is how some people seem to feed off of being fake with you. They smile in your face and time they see the back of your head they whispering to the person beside them. What gets me are the ones that call themselves being real to your face and still have something to say different behind your back. They swear up and down that they are just being real and just want to let you know how they feel, when they really have a whole other aspect than the one they told you.



It's really funny to me, and let me tell you keep on the look out for everyone... family and friends. You never know who has a hidden agenda towards you. If they are not for you, they are against you. Even if they are for you, make sure you find out if they really are, because next thing you know they have said things about you that you wouldn't believe if someone paid you to.



Beware of the fake people.

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