Around for too long
I will admit, I'm the one who is sooooo bad with this. There are times that there are people that do not even deserve my time, energy, or presence that I allow in. It can be very crippling and instead you wish, hope, and pray that something good will eventually come out of it.
The major eye opener was me befriending someone who pretended to be my friend to my face, but lo and behold, behind my back I was never good enough for anything or anybody. She would speak a great game about how she was only trying to be a real friend and "help me out" when in reality she was only trying to stroke her own sick and demented ego. Her "helping me" only really hurt me, but at the same time it made me stronger.
Most times people have a sole purpose in your life and it's up to you to pray for that discerning spirit to show you what exactly is that purpose, or if you are the purpose in their life in order to better them in some manner.
I was almost sucked back in to the person that I referred to above, but I had someone who loved me so much he was like, "You didn't learn from the last times?" I had to step back and think about that for a minute. Even with her trying to get back in with the love of God, some people just don't deserve to be around you any longer no matter how much glitter and gold they put on it.
With that third eye you have to realize that even the enemy uses God to get back to their duty of trying to break you down. Don't let that happen. Smoke and mirrors are often used to deter you off of your path in doing what you are called to do. And while it works well, it's up to you to pray to God to help keep you grounded no matter what. Also ask Him to shew away everyone that does not suppose to be near you and to cut them off at there evil doings against you.
If you pay attention there are already people that can not stand to be around you for far too long. You make them uneasy, and they cannot keep focused on what they were called to do in your life. Don't think it is always you. Sometimes you are covered without even knowing it and God has a shield of protection around you and they must flee quickly. A scripture that I love so much that has helped keep the people that is not supposed to be around me, is Psalms 91. It reads:
"1 He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. 2 I will say of the LORD, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust." 3 Surely he will save you from the fowler's snare and from the deadly pestilence. 4 He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. 5 You will not fear the terror of night, nor the arrow that flies by day, 6 nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at midday. 7 A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you. 8 You will only observe with your eyes and see the punishment of the wicked.9 If you make the Most High your dwelling-- even the LORD, who is my refuge-- 10 then no harm will befall you, no disaster will come near your tent. 11For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; 12 they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.13 You will tread upon the lion and the cobra; you will trample the great lion and the serpent. 14 "Because he loves me," says the LORD, "I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name. 15 He will call upon me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. 16 With long life will I satisfy him and show him my salvation."
I know that sometimes it's hard to let certain people go because maybe they have been there for most of your life. You have to remember that you are blessed with or without anyone. God places people in your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. He has given your the discernment to determine which is which for that person.
All I'm trying to say is love you enough to know when to let go and let God take control and know that having to let someone go doesn't mean that you're going to be lonely without them or whatever the case may be, but that God is just removing someone that is not supposed to be there so that you might grow.
Peace and Blessings!!!
The major eye opener was me befriending someone who pretended to be my friend to my face, but lo and behold, behind my back I was never good enough for anything or anybody. She would speak a great game about how she was only trying to be a real friend and "help me out" when in reality she was only trying to stroke her own sick and demented ego. Her "helping me" only really hurt me, but at the same time it made me stronger.
Most times people have a sole purpose in your life and it's up to you to pray for that discerning spirit to show you what exactly is that purpose, or if you are the purpose in their life in order to better them in some manner.
I was almost sucked back in to the person that I referred to above, but I had someone who loved me so much he was like, "You didn't learn from the last times?" I had to step back and think about that for a minute. Even with her trying to get back in with the love of God, some people just don't deserve to be around you any longer no matter how much glitter and gold they put on it.
With that third eye you have to realize that even the enemy uses God to get back to their duty of trying to break you down. Don't let that happen. Smoke and mirrors are often used to deter you off of your path in doing what you are called to do. And while it works well, it's up to you to pray to God to help keep you grounded no matter what. Also ask Him to shew away everyone that does not suppose to be near you and to cut them off at there evil doings against you.
If you pay attention there are already people that can not stand to be around you for far too long. You make them uneasy, and they cannot keep focused on what they were called to do in your life. Don't think it is always you. Sometimes you are covered without even knowing it and God has a shield of protection around you and they must flee quickly. A scripture that I love so much that has helped keep the people that is not supposed to be around me, is Psalms 91. It reads:
"1 He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. 2 I will say of the LORD, "He is my refuge and my fortress, my God, in whom I trust." 3 Surely he will save you from the fowler's snare and from the deadly pestilence. 4 He will cover you with his feathers, and under his wings you will find refuge; his faithfulness will be your shield and rampart. 5 You will not fear the terror of night, nor the arrow that flies by day, 6 nor the pestilence that stalks in the darkness, nor the plague that destroys at midday. 7 A thousand may fall at your side, ten thousand at your right hand, but it will not come near you. 8 You will only observe with your eyes and see the punishment of the wicked.9 If you make the Most High your dwelling-- even the LORD, who is my refuge-- 10 then no harm will befall you, no disaster will come near your tent. 11For he will command his angels concerning you to guard you in all your ways; 12 they will lift you up in their hands, so that you will not strike your foot against a stone.13 You will tread upon the lion and the cobra; you will trample the great lion and the serpent. 14 "Because he loves me," says the LORD, "I will rescue him; I will protect him, for he acknowledges my name. 15 He will call upon me, and I will answer him; I will be with him in trouble, I will deliver him and honor him. 16 With long life will I satisfy him and show him my salvation."
I know that sometimes it's hard to let certain people go because maybe they have been there for most of your life. You have to remember that you are blessed with or without anyone. God places people in your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. He has given your the discernment to determine which is which for that person.
All I'm trying to say is love you enough to know when to let go and let God take control and know that having to let someone go doesn't mean that you're going to be lonely without them or whatever the case may be, but that God is just removing someone that is not supposed to be there so that you might grow.
Peace and Blessings!!!
Comments
Post a Comment